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Food, feelings and eating worries

A healthy relationship with food means eating regularly, enjoying food and not feeling controlled by it. Learn the warning signs of eating disorders and where to get help.
5 minutes·For 14 to 16, 17 to 19

A healthy relationship with food

Food is fuel, comfort, culture and connection. Think of Diwali sweets, Eid biryani, Onam sadya or Sunday breakfast with family.

Eating regular meals, eating when hungry and stopping when satisfied, and enjoying all kinds of foods without guilt are signs of a healthy relationship with food.

Your growing body needs enough food. Restricting food during the teenage years can affect growth, bones, periods, mood and concentration.

Diet culture and pressure

Social media, advertisements and comments from others can push the idea that you should eat less or change your body.

Diets aimed at young people can be harmful and often lead to a cycle of restriction and overeating. Bodies of all sizes can be healthy.

What are eating disorders?

Eating disorders are serious but treatable mental health conditions. They affect people of all genders, body sizes and backgrounds, including boys.

Warning signs include: skipping meals or cutting out many foods, intense fear of gaining weight, constant thoughts about food or body, eating large amounts in secret and feeling out of control, making yourself sick, or exercising excessively to make up for eating.

Physical signs can include dizziness, feeling cold all the time, periods stopping, tiredness and fainting.

Getting help

If any of this sounds like you or a friend, please talk to a trusted adult or doctor. Eating disorders are easier to treat when help comes early.

If you are worried about a friend, tell them gently that you care and encourage them to talk to an adult. You cannot fix it alone, so tell an adult too.

Key points

  • Enjoying varied foods without guilt is healthy.
  • Growing bodies need enough food; restricting can harm you.
  • Eating disorders affect all genders and body sizes.
  • Warning signs include skipping meals, fear of weight gain and secret eating.
  • Early help works best.

Myth or fact?

Myth

Only girls get eating disorders.

Fact

Boys and people of all genders can develop eating disorders. Anyone can need help.

Myth

You can tell someone has an eating disorder by how thin they look.

Fact

People with eating disorders can be any size. Behaviours and thoughts matter more than appearance.

Myth

Skipping dinner is a healthy way to manage your body.

Fact

Skipping meals can harm growth, mood and concentration and often leads to overeating later. Regular meals are healthier.

When to get help

  • Talk to a parent, school counsellor or doctor if thoughts about food or your body feel out of control.
  • Call Tele-MANAS on 14416, free and 24x7, to talk to a trained counsellor.
  • Get urgent medical help or call 112 if someone faints, has chest pain or is very weak.
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Check what you know

Question 1

1.Which is a sign of a healthy relationship with food?

Question 2

2.Who can develop an eating disorder?

Question 3

3.A friend is skipping meals and seems anxious about food. What helps?

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Based on guidance from WHO, American Academy of Pediatrics, NHS, Indian Academy of Pediatrics. Awaiting review by Puberty Lab's clinical advisory board. General education, not medical advice for any one person.

Food, feelings and eating worries · Puberty Lab